Use Your Head To Get Your Woman Back _ Keep It Simple

Women are not the most forgiving of creatures so you need to use your head to get a woman back.

Women are often compared to elephants, not because they look like them but because they remember things for almost as long as an elephant does.

So if you have done something wrong, or she thinks you did something; then be prepared for a battle on your hands.

 Do You Really Want Her Back?

Your ex will probably only give you one chance to get her back so you need to make sure that you want her back for the right reasons.

Often we want what we cannot have. Or worse, if we are the one that was dumped, we think we have to get the other person to fall in love with us again so that we can then dump them so they see how it feels.

If either of these reasons are behind your wish to get your ex back, do yourself a favor and don't waste your time.

However, if you have decided that this woman is the mate you are looking for then you need to put your plan into action.

The good news is that you can convince her to come back to you as women are also loyal and once she has fallen in love with you, she will find it difficult to turn off these feelings.

You need to strike quickly though as a good woman is very attractive to other men who will be all too willing to step into your shoes.

So what can you do?

Forget about sending her a bunch of flowers.  That doesn't work as it is very easy to order flowers and your woman will prefer you put more effort into getting her back into your life. 

Writing her a handwritten letter may help to melt some of the ice around her heart but only if you are sincere.

It really depends on why you two broke up.  If she felt taken for granted then you need to work on convincing her that you know this was a mistake and won't happen again.  If you were unfaithful then you will have to work that bit harder.


 I have a friend named T. W. Jackson. T Dub authored a simple, down to earth step by step guide called The Magic Of Making Up
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Don't try and rush her into changing her mind.

She will need time to get over whatever happened between the two of you but that doesn't mean you should disappear into the sunset.

You should stay in contact and let her know that she is very important to you and that you want her back in your life.  But that you are willing to take things at her pace.

I am not suggesting that you offer to stay friends. Your ex probably has enough friends in her life and this is not the role for you.

You should try reading The Magic of Making Up as this is the book that sorted out my relationship problems once and for all.  It will help you learn how to get woman back and soon.

Self-Help Books

 

by T Dub Jackson, author of The Magic Of Making Up

                                                             

 If you want to get your girl back, self help techniques may not work unless you seek the right type of advice. If you walk into any bookstore you will see shelves of books written on relationships. They will cover all topics and be written by men and women; some of whom will have very impressive credentials.

But how do you know they will work? How do you know that these same writers are themselves happily involved with someone? Quite frankly I believe you have to be in a great relationship before you can help other people with theirs.

After all you don't go to a nun for sex help do you? So why ask a single person how a partnership should work?

You need to use self help books like The Magic Of Making Up i.e. a book written by a real person, who is very happily married and writes to help real people just like you; with similar relationship problems. You want someone who cares whether you and your partner make it or not.

Someone who will answer your emails should you wish to ask them a personal question because just sometimes the books don't always cover everything.

Any relationship can be improved upon. There is no such thing as a 'perfect one' just as no human being is perfect. But you can have a great relationship with your ex girlfriend. She is probably Ms right for you. You may have just run up on a couple of hurdles that you need some help in getting over.

Self help marriage counseling like reading "The Magic Of Making Up" may be an answer for those of us that don't want to sit down with a stranger to discuss the intimate details of our relationship.

But unless you know where to start and what to look for, you probably aren't going to achieve much more than another argument.

The problem is that when you are involved in the situation you often can't see things from the other person's perspective. This is important for you to learn as it takes two to tango as the old saying goes.

You will have to deal with painful issues and discussing these will take patience and practice. For example, sex may be causing an issue between you but it is often very difficult to discuss making love. Both of you may feel embarrassed or ashamed or annoyed that this subject is coming up again.

                                                                             

So before you dive into sorting out your relationship, make sure you have done some reading and proceed carefully while you apply what you have learned.

Take things slowly and don't let your discussions turn into an argument. If things get heated, walk away and cool down. You cannot make the other person speak to you, so if they are not into a chat at that time, then leave it, and wait for a couple of days.

Usually you will find that your ex is just as eager as you are to sort things out. Pick your moment before applying the relationship self help approach.

If you would like some more great information on how to get your girl back.....

I have a friend named T. W. Jackson. T Dub authored a simple, down to earth step by step guide called The Magic Of Making Up.  Take a look I think you'll like it.